Has your submission ever let you down?
Yes it has. submissives are a dime a dozen. Most of the posts on FetLife and Recon.com are from submissives. In that way my submission lets me down. It would be so much easier to hookup, find a long term partner or have play sessions if only i was a Dom. But, it is not my nature. So, i continue to wait, update my profile and pictures, and try to integrate more into the Leather BDSM community.
Have you ever been criticized for your submission?
The only real criticism i have received is the one i told Y/you about before. It was the story of the guy on the hookup site bullying me because i choose to call myself a “boy”. i retaliated and then blocked him. Probably should have just let it go, but i didn’t.
Have you ever regretted being or feeling submissive in a moment or in a relationship?
i have no regrets for being a bottom or submissive. i have had great sex and some interesting events related to my being submissive. Just a quick anecdote: we hosted a couple of gay Puerto Rican soccer players in town for a tournament. They spoke little to no English and i spoke no Spanish, but after my partner went to work the next morning one of the men came to my bedroom, got in the bed nude and proceeded to fuck the daylights out of me. He was good looking and hung, uncut. He sensed or somehow knew that i was a submissive bottom boy and would gladly allow him to do as he pleased.
Have you ever looked back and realized you made a mistake and how did you handle your submission going forward from that?
Oh, certainly. i have made plenty of mistakes over the course of my life. And continue to. Each mistake or lapse in judgment was an opportunity to learn and grow…and hopefully to not make the same or even similar mistakes. Several of those mistakes i have posted about over these past few months. If Y/you are interested in learning from my poor choices, Y/you can read back through my earlier posts.