Does any element of BDSM occur as a part of your submissive relationships?
This is a really difficult question to respond to. First, i am not in a submissive “relationship” at this but if this question uses that term to include friends, Doms in the community, and acquaintances then i can say yes. my interaction with any Dom is one of submissiveness. However, there have been only a few actual BDSM play sessions. In those instances where i have been with a Dom, yes BDSM was always a major part of the interaction.
i always treat Doms and Masters with the utmost respect.
How do you feel about BDSM?
As that jingle goes, “i like it, i love it, i want some more of it.”
Is it core to your submission, peripheral or non-existent (other than the submission part)?
i would say now it is peripheral. It is on the sidelines waiting for those golden opportunities to actually play with a Dom. In the meantime, i read, study, write my Blog posts, and associate with other subs in the hope that i will get more opportunities to play as i become more of a familiar face in the gay, Leather, BDSM, Kink community.